Daniel Amante
30 yrs., Technical Leader / W.L. Gore & Associates
What was happening in your life before working with mike?
I was in the process of bearing the fruits of my lack of emotional labor in my marriage. I was quickly learning that all of the strategies I'd used to make it where I was in life weren't serving me in a way that made me (or her) happy. I was successful, but only superficially. I was numb to myself and the feelings of those I cared most about. I was unable to express my emotions and unable to connect with the emotions of those around me.
What benefits did you gain from working with mike?
I gained a mentor, a model, a safe space, a reflection, and a friend. From Mike, I was able to learn from his experiences and expertise. I was able to see how the things he was teaching me could be embodied in a person. I had the safety to know that I didn't have to "get it right" I just had to "be true to what was happening." I was able to reflect on the events of my past and present to actually begin to let go so they didn't mess up my future.
How was your experience working with mike each session?
Working with Mike each session was a combination of exhausting and energizing. We'd dive deep and hang out down there as long as I could stand. That's where the work is. He'd help me get to the things I didn't want to clarify, didn't want to work on, and didn't want to think about. That clarity, that effort, that progress was energizing to keep working and improving.
What is your relationship with yourself like today?
It's a work in progress. It'll always be a work in progress. But now, I'm working on it.
What would you say to someone who is interested in coaching with mike?
What is more valuable than growing as a person and really understanding yourself and how you move through relationships, work, and the world? I made so much progress with Mike in 8 weeks that people were trying to figure out what was different about me when they saw me. My body language, how I carried myself all changed through Mike. I got an emotional makeover, and just like the TV shows those around me couldn't believe it. You can have that transformative experience too if you put in the work.